Marriage

Information:
Marriage/Nikkah Services
Uswat Welfare Trust conducts Nikkah services for members and other Muslim Community.
Important Points
If you reside outside the London area please contact us to arrange Nikkah. Al Uswat Welfare Trust primarily provides Nikkah services for the local Muslim community within London;

The Nikkah Organisers reserve the right to refuse Nikkah without reason on behalf of Uswat Welfare Trust. This is unlikely to occur if you follow the correct procedures for completing the application form accurately and providing any further information as and when requested.

The Nikkah ceremony is a very important step in one’s life and as such the Trust places a great deal of importance on ensuring that this pious act is with the approval of parents and/or next of kin.
We recommend that Nikkah is booked at least 2 to 3 weeks prior to the planned date.

To book Nikkah please contact the office on 0790820001:
We need the following information before Nikkah can be conducted together with a fully completed nikkah application form:
1. Civil Marriage Certificate – Uswat Welfare Trust will not issue a Nikkah Certificate unless the original Civil Marriage Certificate is produced to the person in charge.
2. Date of Nikah
3. Preferred Time – Uswat Welfare Trust will do their utmost to meet preferred times, however, there will be occasions when this may not be possible.
4. ID – For the Bride and Bridegroom. If names have changed, then the original copy of the Deed Poll.
5. Divorcees – Decree Absolute & Talak Documents in accordance with Islamic Sharia.
6. Widow/Widower – Former spouses death certificate.
The Nikkah/Marriage booking form can be downloaded here
How the Nikkah/marriage is perform:
The actual marriage ceremony is quite simple. A day is chosen (preferably as soon as possible after the engagement) and announced. The prophet (upon him be peace) encouraged that marriages should be announced well, so that the community learns of this communion and do not look at the couple with suspicion when seen together. Therefore, a marriage should not be contracted in secret.
Thereafter, the following should be observed for the actual ceremony:
1. The Nikah should be performed by a pious person.
2. Two witnesses should be chosen and present at the gathering. The Messenger of Allah (upon him be peace) said, “There is no marriage without a wali and two upright witnesses… (Ibn Hibban). Although all those present could potentially be witnesses, it is better to have two formal witnesses who sign the marriage contract and can be called upon in the event of any problems.
3. The marriage payment [dowry or mahr] should be stipulated beforehand and the person performing the ceremony should be informed of the amount.
4. The bride should preferably send a wali (her father, uncle, brother or any such elder) to represent her. The wali should be present in the gathering. The Messenger of Allah (upon him be peace) said, “A women should not marry herself off [i.e. without a wali] (Ibn maja). In the Hanafi school, the consent of a mature bride is necessary and she cannot be married off without it. The Messenger of Allah (upon him be peace) said, “A virgin cannot be married off without her permission.” They asked as to how her permission is given. He replied, “Her silence” (Bukhari and Muslim).
5. When the bride grants her wali [representative] the permission to marry her to the groom, it is preferable to have two people (from among her mahrams) to witness this also. Although, the representation is valid without witnesses, however, in the event of problems their testimony would be needed to prove that she consented to her marriage to the groom.
6. The sunna khutba [sermon] will be recited first by the Imam performing the marriage. This khutba includes the three verses of taqwa, and a hadith or two about marriage, exhorting the couple and those present to fear Allah and attain taqwa (Abu Dawud, Tirmidhi, Nasai, Ahmad).
7. After the khutba the Imam will ask the representative (1) if he gives consent to the bride’s (taking her complete name) marriage (2) to the groom (again taking the complete name) (3) for the stipulated amount of marriage payment (4) in the presence of the two witnesses. If the representative consents then the Imam turns to the groom and ask if he accepts the bride (taking her name) in his marriage for the stipulated amount of marriage payment. The groom has to reply in complete terms such as, “I accept her in my marriage” or ” I have accepted her in my marriage” or “I do marry her.” It is preferable that he say this and not just “I do” or “I accept.”
8. The Imam should then recite the following du’a,
“Barak Allahu laka wa baraka alayka wa jama’a baynakuma bikhayr.”
May Allah bless you and have His blessing descend upon you and unite you in goodness.
Thereafter, he will make other du’as for the couple and those present.
May Allah grant us the ability to simplify what Allah and His Messenger instructed to be simple and grant us blessing in it.